Hockey is the Best Medicine
-Jillian Murphy
May 4th, 2011. The day my passion for hockey intensified. It was the
Eastern Conference Semifinals and the Boston Bruins were getting ready to
square off against the Philadelphia Flyers in Boston for Game 3 of a best of 7.
They were up 2-0 in the series after eliminating their hated rivals, the
Montreal Canadiens, in 7 games in the first round.
I happened to be in Boston with my dad, preparing for yet another
surgery at Boston Children's. I was to undergo reconstructive shoulder surgery
in a few days as a result of a genetic connective tissue disorder, Ehlers
Danlos Syndrome (EDS). It had been a rough year, with 4 major surgeries to
stabilize various joints from daily dislocations.
As my dad and I walked into the lobby of the hotel in Coolidge
Corner, my dad (jokingly) asked the attendant to let him know if anyone was
selling tickets. Little did he know that within 10 minutes of getting to our
room, I would have 2 tickets for that very same game. An hour later we were in
the cab on the way to the Garden.
The atmosphere around the Garden was electric, though that is hardly
surprising. It is a hockey town after all and the city was buzzing. Boston
hadn't won the Stanley Cup in 39 years, and the fans were hoping for a deep run
at the greatest trophy in all of sports.
We found our seats and I waited anxiously for the puck to drop. I
didn't have to wait long for the Garden to come alive. It changed me.
Chara. Bomb. 1-0 Bruins 30 seconds into the game. I had never heard
one building erupt like that. Just 33 seconds later, Krejci on a feed from
Lucic. 2-0 Bruins. From that point on, hockey would become my biggest passion.
I haven't missed a game since. Not even when I was in the ICU following brain
surgery.
The Bruins would go on to lift Lord Stanley in 2011; bringing the
Cup back Boston. I was also in Boston for Game 7 of the Stanley Cup Finals, as
I had a follow-up appointment after surgery. What an incredibly special time it
was to be in such an amazing city amongst the greatest hockey fans in the
world.
Living with chronic illness is all about adapting and finding
different ways to cope and manage the pain. I, for one, do not take narcotic
pain medications and with daily joint dislocations, pain is something I am very
familiar with.
I have come to find that there is no greater
distraction than hockey. It is simply the best medicine; stronger than the most
potent pain medications, and more effective than anything my doctors have to
offer.
For 60 minutes I forget all about my
dislocations and the subsequent joint pain, the headaches from Chiari
Malformation and cervical instability, the intense burning in my legs from
Complex Regional Pain Syndrome (CRPS), and all of my other related symptoms and
syndromes. Instead, I become immersed in the game. I track the players’ stats
throughout the game, and connect via Twitter with the passionate fan base of
the Boston Bruins. Together, we celebrate the triumphs and lament on the
losses. But regardless of the outcome, I always look forward to the next game,
the next 60 minutes where I will feel no pain and become consumed by a passion
I never knew existed, but one that I could not live without. I could not
imagine my life without this team and this sport; it would be far too painful.
-->2011 Stanley Cup Champions Boston Bruins |
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Background:
I was born in Connecticut, though my dad was born in Massachusetts; therefore, you could say that I was born into a Boston sports family. My dad taught me all about the Bruins. Not only did he teach me the game and share with me his favorite Bruins memories dating back to the days of Bobby Orr, but because of the Bruins I shared an incredible bond with my dad. Our collective passion for Boston sports, and specifically the Bruins, is something I will cherish for the rest of my life. I lost my dad to cancer in 2016. Now when I watch the Bruins, I know he is with me, just in a different way. I still feel a connection to my dad when I watch every game.
Jillian, I didn't really know what fueled your passion for hockey! It all makes total sense. I wish they played all year long, but I'm thinking keeping track of all the happenings in hockey helps too. I'm so glad you wrote this article and also that you found something that mitigates your pain. Love you so much! Mimi
ReplyDeleteHi Jill - I am so glad you wrote this article as well. You are an incredible inspiration to me and to many others with your attitude for dealing with pain. We love you more than words can say and can't wait to see you next. Of course, if the Bruins meet the Rangers in the playoffs .... Love, Kevin, April & Anna Jane
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