Showing posts with label CRPS. Show all posts
Showing posts with label CRPS. Show all posts

Friday, May 10, 2019

EDS Awareness Month: Answering Your Questions! PART TWO

Because connective tissue can be found all throughout the body, there are a lot of secondary or associated conditions that are believed to be connected to EDS--Dysautonomia (POTS, orthostatic hypotension, neurocardiogenic syncope), Chiari Malformation, asthma, heart complications (Mitral Valve Prolapse), Mast Cell Activation Syndrome (MCAS), gastroparesis and other GI motility challenges---and the list continues.
 
Comorbidities
What other conditions do you have?
In addition to EDS, I have Chiari Malformation, craniocervical instability, neurocardiogenic syncope and POTS, bilateral acetabular hip dysplasia (corrected in a procedure called Periacetabular Osteotomy--PAO), gastroparesis and delayed intestinal motility, Hashimoto's, Graves', autoimmune neutropenia, and complex regional pain syndrome (CRPS).
 
POTS
What is POTS? 
Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome (POTS) is a form of dysautonomia (autonomic dysfunction) and a form of orthostatic intolerance. Dysautonomia (autonomic dysfunction) is a term used to describe any disorder/disease/malfunction of the autonomic nervous system. It is associated with Ehlers Danlos Syndrome.

The autonomic nervous system controls functions that we do not consciously think about--blood pressure, heart rate, respiration rate, digestion, etc.

POTS is characterized by an increase in heart rate (tachycardia) of at least 30bpm or more or >120bpm within the first 10 minutes of standing in the absence of orthostatic hypotension.



This is a fantastic video that explains POTS in a simplified way, as disorders of the autonomic nervous system are incredibly complex.

 
Can you explain what its like to live with POTS? How does it affect you?
POTS is exhausting and unpredictable. Living with POTS is like running a marathon that never ends. My body has to work 3x harder when I am upright as compared to a healthy individual. It leaves my body with very little reserve. It can feel like a never-ending flu. I feel dizzy, lightheaded, weak, shaky, nauseous, and painfully exhausted every single day. I have good days and bad days, but symptoms are always present and can hit at unexpected/unpredictable times.

What is the treatment for POTS? How do you treat your POTS?
POTS can be very difficult to treat/manage. There is no cure, so the goal is to alleviate/manage symptoms. Every patient is different. Treatments for POTS include increasing fluid intake, increasing salt consumption, wearing compression stockings, raising the head of the bed, and graduated exercise. If non-pharmacological methods are not enough, there are a number of different medications that people take to decrease heart rate and/or increase blood pressure. 

I went through the standard process of treatment. I started with all of the methods listed above; however, I reached a point where I struggled to get out of bed without fainting and medications were not effective enough. Due to low blood volume, I receive IV fluid 3x/week through a port-a-cath (central line). Though it is not a cure and I still experience symptoms, IV fluid has been the single most effective treatment for me. The use of a central line and IV hydration should be the LAST RESORT as there are risks involved.

Gastroparesis
What is gastroparesis?
Gastroparesis (GP) = delayed stomach emptying. Delayed stomach emptying leads to a backup in the digestive tract and symptoms of nausea, vomiting, bloating, feeling of fullness after just a few bites, abdominal pain, belching, lack of appetite, weight loss and malnutrition.

Literally translated, gastroparesis means "stomach paralysis."
 
Can you eat?
Yes, I can eat. However, I do not tolerate enough food orally to sustain myself from a nutritional and caloric standpoint. As a result, I have a feeding tube. To learn more about feeding tubes click here

How is it treated?
Everyone is different. Treatment varies from diet changes to medications to feeding tubes to surgical intervention and gastric pacing. 

Chiari and CCI
What is Chiari Malformation? 
Chiari Malformation is a neurological disorder where part of the brain (the cerebellar tonsils) herniates or descends out of the skull into the spinal canal. This results in compression of the spinal cord and brain stem. As a result, this compression disrupts the normal flow of cerebrospinal fluid (CSF) leading to disabling neurological symptoms (headaches, occipital neuralgia, numbness and tingling in hands and feet, weakness, nausea/vomiting, dizziness, low blood pressure, and many more).

How were you diagnosed with Chiari?
In 2010, I experienced a CSF leak from an epidural I had placed for hip surgery. This resulted in the most debilitating post-dural puncture headaches. Despite returning to the operating room to have a blood patch to resolve the CSF leak, my headaches never went away. Eventually, a brain MRI confirmed an 8.5mm herniation. 

Symptoms of Chiari Malformation are much more than just headaches


Is there a treatment for Chiari Malformation? Is there a cure?
There is no cure. Treatment focuses on alleviating symptoms. This may include medication and/or surgery to relieve the compression on the brainstem and spinal cord. I underwent a brain surgery (posterior fossa decompression) in 2014. 

To learn more about my journey with Chiari Malformation you can watch my video:



What is CCI? 
CCI stands for craniocervical instability. It is a structural instability of the craniocervical junction, or where the skull and spine meet. This is often seen in conjunction with Chiari Malformation in patients with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome. Treatment includes the use of a cervical collar, physical therapy (by an EDS knowledgable PT), or a craniocervical fusion. 
 

Concerns about family members
Diet tips for people with POTS?
With POTS it is often common and recommended to increase fluid and salt intake. This helps boost blood volume because where salt goes, water follows. As I am not a physician and cannot offer medical advice, any concerns about dietary changes or the use of multivitamins should be discussed with your doctor.

Thursday, May 2, 2019

EDS Awareness Month: Answering Your Questions! PART ONE



Last month I asked people to send me their questions about EDS and related conditions...you asked some really great questions! 

Due to the number of questions and length of some answers, I have separated the questions into 2 posts. Below are the answers to part one!

General EDS Questions

What is EDS? 
The Ehlers-Danlos syndromes (EDS) are a group of genetic connective tissue disorders. Connective tissue is found in about 80% of the human body and is made up of proteins that support skin, bones, blood vessels, and other organs. EDS is characterized by joint hypermobility, skin hyperextensibility, and tissue fragility. There are currently 13 subtypes. The specific gene mutations are known for all but one subtype- hypermobile EDS (hEDS). The genetic cause varies depending on the particular subtype, but EDS often involves a defect in the protein collagen. Collagen is the glue that holds the body together. 

People with EDS present with joint, skin, and systemic problems. The hypermobile joints are unstable and prone to frequent dislocations and subluxations (partial dislocations). This leads to widespread musculoskeletal pain and early onset of osteoarthritis. People with EDS often have very soft velvety-like skin that is hyperextensible and fragile. The skin may tear or bruise easily, resulting in severe scarring, and slow and poor wound healing. 

Depending on the subtype, people with EDS are also more prone to arterial, intestinal, and uterine fragility or rupture, scoliosis, poor muscle tone, and mitral valve prolapse. 

EDS is a spectrum disorder. The severity varies from person to person. Some are only mildly affected, while others are completely disabled.  No two people with EDS present in exactly the same way, making it incredibly difficult to diagnose and manage. For some, EDS is progressive, with symptoms worsening over time. 

What is the treatment for EDS? Is there a treatment? 
Treatment plans are individualized and focus on managing symptoms, which are widespread and varied. Treatment for EDS may consist of surgery, physical therapy, and bracing or splinting. Making treatment and management of EDS complicated are the comorbid conditions. I will cover questions related to the associated conditions in part two.

Surgery may involve a particular joint with the goal of stabilizing it as best as possible. This often requires creative thinking from the surgical team and the use of allografts (a tissue graft from a donor of the same species as the recipient but not genetically identical.) Joint fusions may be necessary as a last resort. There are a number of non-orthopedic surgeries that are sometimes required as well due to the comorbid/associated conditions (neurosurgery, cardiovascular surgery, GI surgery, etc.).

PT is incredibly important in EDS, but it is also crucial to find a physical therapist that understands EDS. Often times traditional exercises are not effective or safe. Many with EDS also have comorbid conditions that need to be considered as part of the PT treatment plan as well. The goal of PT is to increase muscle strength to better stabilize joints, address muscular imbalances, and improve proprioception.

Bracing and splinting provides additional support and stability to unstable joints. However, the downside to braces/splints is that it can also lead to muscle atrophy, which leads to more instability.

Is there a cure (or one currently being worked on)?
Unfortunately, to date, there is no cure for any of the 13 subtypes of EDS. One of the reasons I am so passionate about raising awareness and helping people better understand EDS and related conditions is awareness leads to more funding and research. Without research, there will be no cure.


What are the differences between the 13 subtypes?
Each subtype has its own set of clinical criteria; however, there are similarities between the different types. Similarities include joint, skin, and systemic manifestations consistent with connective tissue disorders. To learn more about the differences click here!





Is EDS painful?
Yes, for me it is! I deal with anywhere from 1 to 20+ joint dislocations/subluxations every day. Dislocations and subluxations lead to significant joint pain as a result of micro and macro trauma to the surrounding nerves, soft tissue, and bone structures. I experience pain every minute of every day.


What is the difference between dislocations and subluxations?
A dislocation is a "displacement of a bone from its natural position in the joint." This occurs when the two bones that form a joint fully separate from each other. It requires reduction, or manipulation to relocate the bones back to their proper position.

Anterior shoulder dislocation

A subluxation is a partial dislocation in which the bones begin to separate, though not completely. A subluxation can be just as painful as a dislocation and can even be more difficult to address due to widespread muscular imbalances as the body tries to compensate.

 
Medial kneecap subluxation

I know someone who is "double jointed." Is that the same thing as EDS?
First, there is no such thing as being "double jointed." The proper term is joint hypermobility (joints that move beyond normal/expected range). Joint hypermobility is a characteristic of EDS; however, just because someone is hypermobile, does not mean that they have EDS. Additional clinical criteria must be met before a diagnosis of EDS can be made. EDS is much more than just hypermobile joints. Many people with EDS live with a number of different chronic illnesses that affect multiple systems (all due to faulty connective tissue).



EDS Research and Awareness


How has the general awareness of EDS changed since you were first diagnosed? Has it gotten better or worse?
Great question! Awareness of EDS has certainly improved since my initial diagnosis in 2010. When I was diagnosed at 19 years old, hardly anyone knew what EDS was (including healthcare providers).  I often had to spell it out for my doctors just so that they could "Google it." This made it even more difficult to be accurately diagnosed, much less to find a team that understood how best to manage the many manifestations and widespread systemic problems. While it is still not widely known or understood, it is slightly more recognizable in healthcare; that is my experience at least. However, we are nowhere near where we need to be in regards to awareness. There is not enough research. There is not enough expertise. This needs to change.

In 2017, the clinical criteria were updated and new research/literature was released. This also led to new educational resources for healthcare providers and the general public. My hope is that awareness of EDS continues to improve. Increased awareness leads to more research. Without research, we have no hope for a cure.




Life with EDS

When and how were you diagnosed?
I was diagnosed in 2010 at 19 years old (just before turning 20). I was recovering from major reconstructive hip surgery (as a result of hip dysplasia) and due to immobility from the surgery (being unable to weight bear through my leg), my quad muscles atrophied. This led to spontaneous kneecap dislocations every day. I also struggled with near fainting episodes during that time frame as well. Ultimately, my surgeons referred me to genetics due to the spontaneous kneecap dislocations as well as my past history of gymnastics injuries. I was diagnosed based on clinical examination with hypermobile EDS; however, it is now suspected that I have classical EDS (cEDS). 


How do you manage dislocations and EDS?
EDS: First and foremost, physical therapy. I have been in physical therapy for the last 10+ years. The treatment plan and techniques used depend on the particular area we are working on. The goals, as stated above, are to increase strength and stability, improve proprioception, and manage muscular imbalances and dislocations/subluxations. I also utilize braces/splints to provide additional support, and use mobility aids regularly (wheelchair and/or crutches). Though there is no perfect solution and surgery is not a cure, sometimes we reach a point where my quality of life and function with a particular joint is severely impacted and surgery is the best option.
 
Dislocations: For me, the first step in managing a dislocation is to reduce it (or relocate the joint back to its "normal" position). Sometimes this is easy, and other times it just does not seem to go back in correctly. Depending on the severity of the joint dislocation, I either do nothing (after it is relocated), or I brace/splint/immobilize the joint until the surrounding soft tissue has a chance to settle down. Occasionally I require assistance from my PT to address muscular imbalances that occur as a result of a dislocation/subluxation.

How will EDS affect you in the future?
It is difficult to predict how EDS will affect my future as both EDS and chronic illness are truly unpredictable. I can't predict what my body is going to do 10 minutes from now, so how can I predict my future? With that said, EDS can be progressive. It has been for me. I have watched my health decline over the last 4-5 years and I have not been able to regain any sense of stability. So while I would welcome any improvement, realistically, with a chronic and progressive disorder, it is unlikely that my health improves significantly. This reality is stressful and overwhelming at times because it makes planning my future even more challenging. I want to be able to support myself and be independent. I want to be able to contribute to society in a meaningful way. Unfortunately, with no ability to plan, I do not know what my future will hold.

What is one thing you want someone without EDS to know about EDS or how it impacts your life?
In a perfect world, friends and family (and the general public) would understand everything. But that’s unrealistic. I think the ONE thing I want someone without EDS to know about EDS/how it impacts my life is that it's lifelong. EDS is a genetic condition. I was born with it. It is chronic and progressive. It is not going away. I won’t wake up tomorrow and be better. Surgery isn’t a cure. Physical therapy isn’t a cure. Bracing and splinting is really just a band-aid. There is no medication that will fix this. There is NO cure. The concept of chronic and progressive illnesses seems to baffle people. They really struggle with the idea that there are health conditions that exist without a starting point and an end.

There are so many things I wish people understood. It is not possible to cover them all. It is also not realistic for me to expect people to understand what it is like to live with chronic, unpredictable, progressive illnesses. That is something that you only truly understand when you are living it. I am blessed with family and friends who want to understand and for that, I am forever grateful. Not everyone is as lucky to be surrounded by a wonderful support system. 

What is the hardest/worst part about having EDS?
I think the unpredictability of EDS and chronic illness is the hardest part. Every day is different. I have very little control over what my body does on any given day and that makes it very difficult to plan too far in advance. I often feel guilty canceling plans last minute, and sometimes push myself more than I should because of this guilt. For someone who likes to be in control of situations, I have very little control.

What is the biggest lesson you have learned from EDS?
EDS has taught me so much. It has taught me how to adapt and how to live despite my illness and altered reality. It has taught me to persevere and to trust my instincts and fight for what I believe in. Everyday with EDS I learn. I learn more about myself, my abilities, and my strengths.

My life with EDS and chronic illness is not the one I had envisioned for myself. I had envisioned a life in Boston, working as a nurse at my favorite hospital (the hospital that has done so much for me). I envisioned pursuing a Master's in Case Management and/or Genetics to help others like myself navigate a complicated system. I had hoped to make a positive difference in people's lives. That is not my reality though. So the biggest lesson I have learned is how to adapt to life's circumstances to redefine myself, my goals, and my dreams.

How does EDS effect people with respect to their work life? Are people with EDS able to manage to have jobs/careers?
EDS is a spectrum disorder. Some are only mildly affected, while others are completely disabled. Some are able to work full-time with very little difficulty. Others are able to work part-time. Yet,  some may not be able to work at all. 

I am a Registered Nurse. I worked incredibly hard for my license; however, unfortunately, I am unable to work at this time. I do volunteer as a nurse at a barn that provides programs for special needs children. This allows me to feel purposeful.

My health changes constantly. I live with unrelenting pain and fatigue. In addition to EDS, I also have Chiari Malformation, craniocervical instability, neurocardiogenic syncope and POTS (autonomic dysfunction), gastroparesis and delayed intestinal motility, Hashimoto's, Graves', autoimmune neutropenia, and complex regional pain syndrome (CRPS). With the unpredictability of having so many chronic illnesses, I never know how I am going to feel on a given day or week. It is a frustrating reality, as I want nothing more than to be able to support myself and contribute to society.


What aids do you use regularly? Do you need to use mobility aids and braces consistently?
Due to joint dislocations, joint pain, fatigue, and autonomic dysfunction (POTS) I use a variety of different mobility aids depending on my situation. Sometimes I require a wheelchair for longer outings or circumstances that would require me being on my feet for too long. Due to POTS, I cannot stand for extended periods of time without pre-syncopal/syncopal (fainting) episodes. I am also struggling with right hip dislocations/instability that make weight bearing through my leg very difficult. I am a high fall risk as a result, and a fall leads to other dislocations and injuries. 

For shorter outings, I use forearm crutches. The challenge with crutches, however, is that my right shoulder is incredibly unstable and often dislocates when I apply too much weight through my arm. This can also lead to falls, and with joints that don't stay in place, falls are less than ideal.  

My wheelchair allows me to do fun things with family and friends!








Friday, August 10, 2018

Comfy Clothes

I am a BIG fan of comfortable clothes. Everything I buy is soft and comfortable. I do not try to torture myself with clothing items that look great but don't feel good...so no heels for me (but seriously, I would break my ankle if I tried them anyway). I also don't wear jeans or pants with a bulky waist. I am in enough pain as it is...the last thing I need to do is wear clothing that contributes to my pain. However, I also know that when I like what I am wearing, my mood is better too!

I have compiled a list of clothing items (both style and brand) that I find to be comfortable and affordable, while not looking like I just rolled out of bed (not that there is anything wrong with wearing pajamas outside--I have done that too)!

STYLES
  • V-Neck Boyfriend Shirts and Oversized Sweaters
    $20 from Target (A New Day)

    $10-16 at Old Navy
    • This is a staple in my wardrobe as they are loose, comfortable, and relatively inexpensive. I buy most of mine at Old Navy and Target. With a good sale at Old Navy you can find similar items for $4-6.
  • Rompers/Jumpsuits
    Retails at $60 but sold in Nike Outlets at a lower price


    • I LOVE rompers and jumpsuits. They are so easy and comfortable. It's an entire outfit with just one item! I have several rompers from Nike and I love them (see picture above). I also have rompers and jumpsuits from Old Navy, Gap and Amazon.com.   
    • Gap "Strappy Jumpsuit" - $40 (I bought it for $20 on sale)
  • Leggings
    No Boundaries Junior Sueded Jersey Leggings $5.88
    • If I am not wearing a romper or shorts, I am probably wearing leggings. I tend to stick to black leggings from Walmart as they are SUPER soft and comfortable but I also have some fun colored/patterned leggings from a variety of different stores (Target, Nike, Walmart, and Old Navy).
  • Crew sweatshirts 
    • I love (oversized) crew sweatshirts! I wear them all the time with leggings. My favorite brands are Nike and Target.
  • Lightweight hoodies
    $16.99 at Target
    • I have a bunch of hoodies from Target that are so soft and comfortable. They are loose and lightweight, which is helpful when I am bloated from gastroparesis. I wear them with leggings.
  • Zip-up hoodies
    Typically starts at $50 but can be found for less at the Nike Outlet!
    • I LOVE hoodies (both pullover and zip)! Most of my zip-up hoodies are either Nike or from H&M. Zip-ups are really convenient because they are easier to put on and take off, which means I am less likely to dislocate a shoulder in the process.
  • Slides 
    $20-30
    • I do not know what I would do without my slides! I wear them all summer long. I wear Nike slides and I have them in several colors. Of course, I wear them with socks. 
  • Comfortable sneakers 
    Nike Prestos!
    • I am not a HUGE sneaker fan but I have 2 pairs of Nike Prestos. The best part about my prestos is that my ankle brace fits inside them and they match my hockey jerseys!  
My TOP Brands
  • Nike
    • I am a bit of a Nike brat as my dad worked for Nike for 26 years...so I grew up with Nike! But everything is super comfortable and it lasts for a long time!
  • Target
    • I am not sure why Target decided to discontinue their Mossimo and Merona brands as they were really comfortable and affordable (I know a lot of people were upset with the change). I like their oversized v-neck sweaters, rompers, and lounge pants (yes, I wear them out)!
  • Old Navy/Gap
    • Old Navy has great sales and low prices! I buy the same item in different colors.
  • Walmart (mainly for leggings)
    • $5.88 soft leggings for the WIN!
  • H&M  
    • Great for basics and low prices!
Hope this was helpful! This post is not sponsored, nor do I receive any money for promoting these brands! I am simply sharing my favorite go-to items!

Top is from Target (same as the one posted above...but on me!)

Lightweight hoodie from Target (circled)

Friday, August 5, 2011

Humpty Dumpty

I've been feeling a lot more like Humpty Dumpty these days---well really for the last 2 years but more so lately. Somedays I feel like I will never be "put back together"---and the reality is I won't ever be "healed." I have surgery to correct one joint/problem and then something else dislocates. Even the joints I have already "fixed" will need more "fixing" in the future. It's a never ending cycle of surgeries and recoveries. It's frustrating because there are so many things I want to do but find I am unable to or I just end up injuring something else.

I fell down the stairs last week. My knee buckled, gave out and I slipped. This happened 6 days after I stepped in a hole. I am becoming more and more concerned with my left knee and it's inability to function and support me. It hurts all the time and gives out whenever it feels like it. I imagine this is in part due to lack of muscle strength and control--but it's getting very frustrating. Thankfully (and surprisingly) no complete dislocations with the fall--I just subluxated my right kneecap. However, I did hear a "pop" in my right hip and definitely over extended it (not to mention landed on it). My groin pain has been horrible ever since. I am hoping it is just my iliopsoas, which is an annoying problem to deal with...but something that IS manageable. I am, however, concerned that I aggravated the labral tear in my right hip. I will discuss my concerns with my hip surgeons at my post-op appointments in 2 weeks and see what they think.

Recap: I have a labral tear and FAI in my right hip that was noted on an MRI last year. Due to my EDS, my PAO surgeon decided it was best to keep my hip capsule closed (if possible) and not repair the tear--less is more with my body. Re-positioning the socket with the PAO surgery takes the uneven load off of the labrum and typically prevents the need for a scope. (In order to repair the labrum and FAI, the surgeon needs to open the hip capsule. This creates instability--something I can seriously do without).

I have been very frustrated and over-whelmed lately. I have been in therapy for 2 consistent years--the only breaks I have had are for surgery. I feel like I have made zero progress because everything (except my shoulder) hurts all the time. Joints I have been working on for 2 years are still painful. It's just very stressful.


I have so many overlapping problems that it's hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I just want so badly to not have this body. I want to go back to my "glory" days of gymnastics, when my body was "unbreakable"---I had the strongest muscles and was so physically fit that my joints just stayed in place. I was able to experience being an athlete (and a talented one at that). I  trained everyday for hours. I want to feel that accomplished again. I miss the intense training, and learning new skills. I miss competing. It was my life, it defined me...and slowly EDS took that away. 

US National TOPs Team
1999

US National TOPs Team
2000
Now I don't even know what it's like to live without pain. Unfortunately I can't change my body and how it has altered my life, so I just have to accept it and make the best of it. I ask you God to give me strength...

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time,
Enjoying one moment at a time,
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace,
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it,
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life,
and supremely happy with Him;
Forever in the next.
Amen


My left (operative) shoulder is doing well. I have almost no pain with everyday activities and have a functioning ROM.  My surgeon's orders are to take PT very slowly and progress only as noted in the script. My exercises in PT seem very easy to me but I guess that's my sign of some progress.

We head to Boston in 2 weeks to move Shane into college and see all of my surgeons. I am hoping to schedule my right ankle surgery and discuss the procedure with my surgeon. I also need to address my right knee subluxations and instability. Hopefully I haven't reached the surgery stage yet. I will also be meeting with a spine specialist at Mass General. We have a lot to discuss in regards to my spine and SI instability, and chronic back pain. I have been in a tremendous amount of pain in my back and would really like some answers and relief.

I haven't reported on my CRPS nerve pain in awhile. This is because it hasn't been a problem for several months now. Occasionally I have a flare and hypersensitivity, but it's short lived. I can touch my leg without pain and have not had any swelling or discoloration. I am still taking 1800mg of Neurontin a day. I do not feel comfortable weening off just yet because I still experience the occasional flare. CRPS also has a mind of it's own and sometimes all it takes is an injury or trauma to the leg for it to start back up again. I will meet with my pain doctor sometime this fall/winter to discuss the next steps.

I am currently taking heart rate medication (Verapamil) to control arrhythmias. The medication seems to be helping as I am no longer waking up in the middle of the night to my heart pounding out of my chest. I had an echo last week to see if I have any structural problems with my heart. I will discuss the results with my Cardiologist at the end of August and post an update at that time.

On Wednesday I had a BBQ with two of my (newly engaged) best friends--Jamie and Andy! It's always great to spend time with them. We talked for hours, listened to country music, and went in the hot tub. It was an awesome night.

BBQ night
(yes I went dark...I am now a brunette)